My daughter is quite possibly the best little girl in the world.
Ok, so I know we all think that, but seriously she’s so kind, thoughtful, caring, loving, funny, imaginative and just all round epic.
Being a mum is the most rewarding and terrifying job in the world.
I am constantly worrying I’m screwing it up.
Everything I read about mindset and dealing with your subconscious beliefs, that are effecting all of your adult life, says that it mostly comes from your childhood.
If I wasn’t a mother I could just do the work, clear my unconscious limiting beliefs with things like tapping, forgiveness and love, but the fact that I am a mother, means that I am doing all the work on myself, but also worrying constantly about how much I’m messing my own kid up.
I honesty don’t want her to have to go though any of these issues I have come up against.
I want her to love herself. Be confident. Know that she can do, be and have anything she puts her mind too. I want her to understand all about the power of the universe and how she can create the life of her dreams no matter how big those dreams are. I want her to be a master manifester so she can live an awesome life and never have to struggle.
She is so much like me as a child. She’s shy. Not overly confident. Doesn’t particularly school. Loves films. Is such an empath that it’s kinda cute. If I get upset, she looks at me with so much love and concern in her eyes it breaks me. She is just so loving and innocent I want her to stay like that forever.
I guess as I am on this path, I can hopefully save her from at least a few limiting beliefs?
Money for example. I had so many money blocks when I started this work a year ago. Some of the stories I had around money would make you cringe (as you can guess if you have ever read my blog – Money Mindset)
Now I get to love money, know that there is always enough. That it flows to me easily and that it’s safe to save money and spend it. Knowing this means I can teach my daughter all these things too.
Already she will find a penny on the street and say “thank you Universe”
When I’m with her I don’t say things like “we can’t afford that” or “we don’t have enough money for that” as these end up being beliefs that can last a life time.
Instead we say “I haven’t got enough coins with me for that right now” or “oooh, that’s lovely, let’s put that on our vision board and see how long it takes to manifest. What a fun game”
There can also be challenges when it comes to their inner story about themselves. I will ALWAYS boost her up. Never will I say she isn’t good enough.
If she can’t do something she’s trying to do, I will say “wow! Amazing babe. That’s such good work. You can do anything you put your mind too. How amazing are you!”
Sometimes I’m sure in the heat of the moment however, when I have asked her to put her shoes on fifty thousand times as “we are going to be late for school!!” I may make her “feel” like she’s a failure.
How do we get around that without ALLLLLLL of the mum guilt!?!?
Well my advise to any parents on this path and feeling guilty like myself is we are on this journey and have forgiven all of our shit, so even if you snap about an un-eaten dinner, showing your child this way of life as often as you can and teaching them to be grateful every day, will hopefully save them from too much work to do when they are grown.
To all the Mamma’s and Pappa’s worrying about messing your kids up…….
All they need is love, support, encouragement, kind words, cuddles and as much of your time as you can give them. Read that book, play with that doll, make that play dough burger and pretend to eat it!
We are all in this together and if we can come out the other side happy and healthy. Our children will too.
All the love